Your writing is excellent -- any long-term plans for a novel?
When I am newly "friended" I feel it is on a trial basis. I friended someone who I ended up not digging at all -- So I left a note explaining my decision and wished them the best of luck.
For the most part, I think that people know why they have been defriended. When you let someone know that you have defriended them, they can say "Well -- Screw you! For being nice about it, Loo-ser..."
I have noticed the norm seems to be that people leave a post saying they have done some "cleaning up" etc...Which makes me feel like people wait until they a whack of dud friends to dump all at once so that no one takes offense.
I dunno -- I feel like I'm breaking up with someone sometimes :)
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Date: 2004-11-29 03:14 pm (UTC)When I am newly "friended" I feel it is on a trial basis. I friended someone who I ended up not digging at all -- So I left a note explaining my decision and wished them the best of luck.
For the most part, I think that people know why they have been defriended. When you let someone know that you have defriended them, they can say "Well -- Screw you! For being nice about it, Loo-ser..."
I have noticed the norm seems to be that people leave a post saying they have done some "cleaning up" etc...Which makes me feel like people wait until they a whack of dud friends to dump all at once so that no one takes offense.
I dunno -- I feel like I'm breaking up with someone sometimes :)