LMFAO... just out of curiousity... did the "endless rounds of destruct-o-match II" in the "bad things" section, arise out of the alluded-to drink with me in the "good things" section? (cause if so... there's good in the bad, so it's not completely a waste! hahaha)
as for being in a general funk... I can say I've definitely been there, and the way I got out of it felt much like reading this post. Something just kinda snapped within me, and I realized... wtf am I doing wasting my time? And, I think from that point on, I just quit being "bored" and started being active... I'm always making lists of goals (I always feel more productive when I have a list) ... in the beginning, I made a list of "resolutions" and I posted them somewhere where I would see them every day, so that if I started to slip back into a funk, I'd be able to snap myself out of it before I got too far...
But one of the most important things I did was stop blaming other people for my problems. I blamed my ex for SO long... but then I realized that he had to do what he did for himself at the time, and I was the only one to blame for everything that did or didn't happen after that...
This is already long enough, so I'll stop here, but I can keep writing pages upon pages on the subject if you desire ;) LOL... and, I'm pretty busy these days, but I can always squeeze in time for a drink again if you ever want to... :)
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as for being in a general funk... I can say I've definitely been there, and the way I got out of it felt much like reading this post. Something just kinda snapped within me, and I realized... wtf am I doing wasting my time? And, I think from that point on, I just quit being "bored" and started being active... I'm always making lists of goals (I always feel more productive when I have a list) ... in the beginning, I made a list of "resolutions" and I posted them somewhere where I would see them every day, so that if I started to slip back into a funk, I'd be able to snap myself out of it before I got too far...
But one of the most important things I did was stop blaming other people for my problems. I blamed my ex for SO long... but then I realized that he had to do what he did for himself at the time, and I was the only one to blame for everything that did or didn't happen after that...
This is already long enough, so I'll stop here, but I can keep writing pages upon pages on the subject if you desire ;) LOL... and, I'm pretty busy these days, but I can always squeeze in time for a drink again if you ever want to... :)